1. Don't expect others to welcome or accept your unwillingness to be orderly no matter how much you reason it. They will debate with you. Hurt feelings will result.
2. Don't make excuses for not doing little things like cleaning a dish or putting belongings away. Those offended will eventually set up consequences like no longer cooking meals.
3. Train yourself to put items back where they belong, clean, etc. You can do this by implementing rules or yourself and following them.
4. Self-talk why it is important to be organized and research the benefits.
5. Create reminders online or offline to clean and organize. Set aside certain days and times.
6. Avoid the trap of keeping things you really don't need including trash like bags, boxes and other packaging.
7. Motivate yourself to stay clean and organized when you think of things like: rats, roaches, bed bugs, dust mites, and more. If you don't tidy up your place, no worries, in time the insects will.
Bedroom is simple, functional and clean.