Thursday

Stuff Dominating Your Residence?

If you are the type who doesn't know what to do with all your stuff (or someone else's), keep reading.  Chances are you think you need to keep everything because, "My friend said she is coming back to get it...I don't know what I will need one day...Well, it all looks important."

Here are some simple tips to get you organized while opening up more room for the things you need.

One.  Sort through your stuff.

Checking out everything that is hidden, taking up valuable space, and boxed will help you get a sense of what is important and what really isn't.  Your interests may have changed.  People may have moved away.  Ask yourself, "Why am I keeping this?"  Sometimes we hold on to things as if they are people.  But remember, things are just things.  You may have to do some self-talk to motivate yourself to want to part with certain items.  Contact individuals to help you rid yourself of certain things that do more harm than good.  From letters to family heirlooms, if it makes you cry, depresses you, causes fear, or brings other negative emotions every time you look at it, say goodbye to it. 

Two.  Group your things.

If you have more than one of anything, group it.  Do you need these items now?  Are you still interested in a certain hobby?  Put the most important things within view so that they will act as a reminder for you to tend to them.  Give yourself about a month or two to do something with those items.  If you find yourself, letting them collect dust, then part with them.

Three.  Purchase clear bins or boxes and label them.

Any small items should be put in containers, bins, drawers, etc.  This way you are able to find them easily.  However, bigger items need a storage place if you intend to keep them.  From books to shoes, if you haven't picked them up in a year, you most likely won't.  Don't let the memories persuade you into keeping them.  Seasonal items that are in use keep well when they are enclosed.  However, if you stopped celebrating certain holidays years ago, rid yourself of them.  Those bins and boxes do nothing more than take up space.

Four.  Call relatives and friends to come get some things.

For items that are relatives and friends, give those people a new deadline to come and get their things or else. The consequence could be any number of things, but be sure you communicate that ridding yourself of stuff is what you are planning to do if they don't show up.  If you must box a relative's stuff up and mail it, do it. Don't worry yourself any longer about storing items that obviously aren't yours and you have little use for. If someone really wants their keepsakes, they will come get them. Stand your ground and don't falter when they say, "Well, I can't get my boxes...why are you getting rid of my stuff...?" Start charging a storage fee, note your intent and give that person a copy.

Now if all your stuff is yours, you might want to give things away you know you aren't using.  Take items out of closets, dressers, etc. and label what you will be giving away.  Your mind will tempt you into keeping something, "because one day you will be needing it."  But once again, if you haven't used that item in years, you most likely won't be in the near future.  List what you have and see what others might be able to use especially young people in transition and new parents. 

Five.  Seek out organizations that will appreciate your stuff.

There are many groups that ask for donations.  If you have a lot of office supplies, consider a business start-up program that helps entrepreneurs.  Maybe you have many items that are in good condition, consider helping someone out who is trying to make some extra money.  Check the phone book for groups that help the homeless and others who are in need.  Partner with a local church or civic group.  Post fliers with your list of items available for sale or free.

Six.  Hold a garage sale or reserve a table at a local flea market.

Many people enjoy selling items at flea markets not only because they make money, but because they get to meet new faces.  From crafts to used household goods, most items at flea markets are reasonable so seek out items in your treasure that are useful, clean and will turn a nice profit.

Seven.  Clean and arrange your room in such a way that you get the most use out of it.

After all your sorting, giving, mailing, and selling items, it is now time to look at the space you have gained.  Clean the room that housed your stuff, make necessary repairs if need be, and arrange your furniture in such a way where you and others in your household feel comfortable.

The biggest hurdle about organizing stuff is the owner.  He or she is going to find every excuse in the book to keep from cutting down on stuff.  When your stuff is getting in the way of your lifestyle or others and keeps you sick, upset, or miserable, it's time to say, "No more."  Many people buy things or bring freebies home that they really don't need, because there are underlying issues that they either don't know of or refuse to address.

Nicholl McGuire 

Thursday

The Time Will Come that You Might Have to Do More than Organize Your Home

So easily distracted are we.  Concerned about organizing files, shoes, books, papers, and more.  Yet, when organizing really matters like: getting groups established, events created, and things done that truly matter to our existence, we take a deep sigh and hope someone else does them.

When one is given a problem to solve, most likely he or she will find the most simplest way to solve it without having to do much--pass the buck for starters.  But given the condition of our world lately with such dark ideologies often shoved down our throats, one can't help but feel a need to do something.  Consider our workplaces, schools, families, neighbors, churches, and more that are in need of a serious house-cleaning mentally, physically or spiritually.

So how might one tackle such daunting tasks when it comes to organizing people and events? 

Ask Questions

Most events are organized based on a simple question, why?  For example, why is this person/place/thing causing XYZ situation?  What might be done to make things right/better/different?  When the problem shows up in your department, household or elsewhere, your responsibility is to find answers to solve the why.  But far too many people rather look the other way.  Build relationships with people who feel the same way you do.  Start by creating an online community, blog, forum, post thoughts on popular social networking sites, distribute fliers offline or advertise to generate interest.

Cut Back on Unnecessary Distractions

Distracted by fashion, technological devices, foolish media stories, money, fame, celebrities, music, personal successes and failures, one doesn't sit quiet long enough to contemplate.  Unimportant things become all-too important, "I'm watching TV...I need to surf the Internet right now...I have to buy some accessories for my phone...I'm listening to my music, what do you want?"  Allow yourself some time to think!  Manipulators, liars, greedy, angry and selfish individuals would rather not give you any free time for yourself, because they innately know that if you start thinking too long about them and what they are doing, you will stop forking over your money, energy and time.  What better way to make the perfect mind-controlled slave out of you?  

Plan to Make Changes

When the need to make a difference in one's life or others arises in one's spirit, it is then that one should begin to plan a strategy that demonstrates passion, vision, longevity, and most of all solutions that promote higher good, benefits, an appreciation for fellow human beings.  Sound the alarm about the state of humanity!  Some people that might do well organizing aren't necessarily those who have a background doing just that with much money in their pockets, but people like the: retiree, mother, student, disabled, part-time worker, or unemployed individual.  These people have more time to think than most.  While baby is sleeping, mom might put off cleaning the house to think about how she can help other mothers.  A retiree might stop watching TV and eating long enough to walk through his home and find the kind of things that might help a group accomplish a common problem.  A disabled individual might record his thoughts for a better corporate structure for a popular company and send them off.  The ideas and deeds are endless, but you get the point.

Act on Your Thoughts and Enlist the Help of Others

Some just might answer the call to organize, but for how long?  After one's personal prayers have been answered (regarding a selfish need), he or she typically bails out from his or her calling to draw attention to a societal ill that may or may not directly impact him or her.  "Sorry, I have no time now that I am working...I started helping out the group in the past, but they didn't have any money to pay me so I stopped...I could have done more, but you know I have grandchildren who need things...I am so busy and I have my own children to be concerned about...I wish I could help but I have so much studying to do now that I am in college."  If one is open to receiving some help, he or she can pass the baton to those who have more time and energy on their hands to keep the protest/event/group/idea going.

Avoid the Temptation to Procrastinate or Give Up

Some may start to do well organizing people and events until someone or something cuts in on his or her race.  Now all things get put on hold.  You might be the one who started doing something, but never finished.  You may even feel like it's too late to do anything more.  Old plans can be tweaked, destroyed, rebuilt, or passed on to others who do have the energy to work them.  But whatever you do, don't stop doing whatever it is that you know inyour heart is what's right no matter what criticism you might receive from the haters. 

What event, group, protest, or other significant thing did you do in the past, recently or feel moved to do now?  What is the "why" that you need to answer?

The next time you feel an overwhelming emotion to do something to get someone or group to consider what they are or aren't doing to help others, answer the call!  Remind yourself to write the letter, make the phone call, get people to sign a petition, create the support group, organize the protest pass the torch, or whatever else you need to do to make a difference.

Once your own household is organized, the time will come to organize someone else's from the inside out, motivate yourself now to get ready to work!  Look around your world for a moment.  Good times don't last for long--take a stand, you are never too old, too young, or too poor. 

Nicholl McGuire is the author of the following books:
Know Your Enemy: The Christian's Critic https://www.createspace.com/3437273
When Mothers Cry https://www.createspace.com/3393499
Laboring to Love Myself https://www.createspace.com/3401526
Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate https://www.createspace.com/3332346
Floral Beauty on a Dead End Street http://www.blurb.com/bookstore/detail/904839
Spiritual Poems By Nicholl http://www.blurb.com/bookstore/detail/3113926

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